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first, don't say negative words.
in life, we often say something negative, frustrated, and even complain because of something unpleasant.
in fact, don't let your language become negative at any time.
there is a saying:
"your thoughts determine your actions, your actions determine your habits,
your habits determine your character, and your character determines your destiny."
what a person says, he has what he thinks.
saying too much negative words will not only discourage you and lose confidence, but also bring bad mood to others.
maybe not everyone is happy every day, but when you always maintain an optimistic and positive attitude, you can overcome more difficult times.
sometimes, a positive word can give you a positive hint, but a negative word can only give you a blow and frustration.
so always make your language sunnier, warmer and softer, and your life will get better and better.
second, look on the bright side.
there is such a story.
there is a man with only three hairs. One day, he went to a very famous hair salon to do a styling.
the hairdresser asked, "what kind of hairstyle would you like, sir?" The customer replied, "just make up your mind. I have no problem with it."
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the hairstylist said, "then let me braid your hair." "I accidentally lost a hair in the process of braiding.
the hairdresser said, "Sir, I've lost a piece of hair. What should I do?" "the customer said," Oh, never mind, then please comb my hair in the middle.
in the process of combing my hair, I lost another hair.
the hairdresser said, "Sir, I've lost another hair. "the customer said," forget it. I'll just go back in my hair. "
in life, we may not be able to decide what will happen, but we can choose how to face it.
in fact, everything has two sides.
when you encounter a bad thing, if you look on the bright side, it becomes a good thing.
there are many moments when you just need to look on the bright side, change your mind, change your state of mind, and your life will become beautiful and happy.
third, he often smiles on his face.
We often face it sadly when something bad happens.
in fact, no matter whether you are happy or not, things have to be dealt with and conflicts have to be resolved.
if you smile, you will not only put yourself in a good mood, but also make others feel comfortable and happy.
there is a saying: "it is a day to be happy and a day to be unhappy, so why not face it happily."
many times, when life cries to you, you smile at it instead, so that life will not feel so bitter.
A smile may not help you solve practical problems, but it can put you in a better position to meet difficulties and challenges.
A smile may not make life any easier, but it can give you a good mindset to face all the good and bad.
A smile may not help you get out of your troubles, but it can help you reduce the burden and stress in your heart.
fourth, learn to understand and understand.
everyone living in this world will inevitably encounter misunderstandings, will inevitably be hurt, and will inevitably encounter people and things that deliberately make things difficult for you.
to understand more, it is not difficult for others or for yourself.
to be more considerate is to let others go as well as yourself.
to be more tolerant is to make others feel better, as well as to make yourself feel better.
No matter the estrangement or contradiction between people, most of them are due to their different angles, their own ideas, and even their starting points.
if you care about everything, you will not only be unhappy, but also make your relationship worse and worse.
sometimes, don't think too much and don't care too much, it will make your life easier and happier.
there is a saying: "when your heart is wide, the world is wide." When your heart is big, the world is big. "
many times, our attitude towards others is actually our attitude towards ourselves.
five, keep a grateful heart.
I have seen such a story.
A small remote village in France has a particularly effective spring that can cure all kinds of diseases.
one day, a soldier with one leg missing and leaning on crutches limped down the town road.
the townspeople next to him said to him sympathetically, "Poor man."is he going to pray to God for another leg?"
this sentence was heard by the soldiers, and he turned to them and said, "I am not praying that God is giving me a new leg, but asking him to help me." Let me know how to live the rest of my life without a leg. "
A philosopher once said:
many times, we will find that the more a person has, the happier he will not necessarily be, but the happier he will be who knows how to be grateful.
when you treat all your experiences and experiences with a grateful heart, you will have fewer complaints and accusations, and you will live a more open and rich life.