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Bacon said: habit is a tenacious and great force, it can dominate a person's life.
around us, there are some people who are always optimistic and calm. While carrying the burden of life, they can still calmly deal with unexpected accidents in life.
in fact, it is not that they have extraordinary abilities, let alone that they will not break down, but that she can be very strict with herself so that she can keep these five good habits forever.
people with a good mindset generally have these five good habits.
be grateful, be content and cherish blessings
someone in Zhihu asked: who is the easiest person to perceive happiness?
remember that a highly praised answer is: those who are grateful and are content to cherish their blessings.
I am deeply convinced that if people do not know how to be contented, there will always be gaps in their hearts, and they will not be able to feel the existence of happiness. Similarly, if you are ungrateful, you will not cherish the hard-won happiness, and how can happiness stay for you.
everything in the world is not taken for granted. if we are lucky enough to enjoy the beauty of the world and accept the contributions of others, we should be contented and grateful, learn to give back, and learn to cherish it. Only in this way can the beauty and happiness continue.
Tao Yuanming has a saying: the wise are picturesque, the benevolent are boundless, have a leisurely cup of wine and a light cup of tea.
isn't it true that people live in the world? Life will always be insipid, as long as contented, people know how to cherish blessings, even if the day is plain, it is also a kind of happiness.
A person who knows how to be contented, how to cherish blessings, how to cherish, and how to take every step in front of us in a down-to-earth way, life will be more and more wonderful.
the heart does not care, there is no worry
Feng Zikai said: when the heart is small, all the little things are big; when the heart is big, all the big things are small; when you look down on the vicissitudes of the world, your heart is safe and sound.
that's true. If you don't care, how can you worry about it?
all over the world, things are not perfect, no one is perfect, look at other people's mistakes, and then think about your own. Look at the experiences of others, and then understand the difficulties of others.
A lot of things are not as complicated as we think. In fact, we think about things complicated, do not want to relax, refuse to let go of ourselves, and finally embarrass others and wronge ourselves.
in daily life, if you can let go, there will be less non-distractions. If you can be magnanimous and ignore it, your life will be more comfortable.
when something happens, don't always put it in your heart. If you don't take everything seriously, don't worry about it. If you care too much, it will only make you unhappy and will only add to your troubles.
the rest of life is not as good as what should be put, forget what should be forgotten, and face it calmly, don't make a big fight, be considerate and tolerant, don't worry too much.
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calm down and the breeze comes naturally
I remember the saying in Caigen Tan: the real blessing is actually a person's quiet qi.
keep calm, be not angry or angry, keep calm when you encounter anything, and face all problems calmly.
keep calm so as not to get angry, to avoid mistakes, to control your temper, and good fortune will come.
people live in the world, except for life and death, other things are not worth mentioning.
if what belongs to you in your life is always yours, if it doesn't belong to you, you will still go if you insist on it.
those who cherish you do not need to be careful; those who do not cherish you do not have to pay with your heart.
Don't be angry when something happens. To be angry with someone or something that is not worth it is to hurt yourself. To be calm, not angry or angry, to stay away from him is to let yourself go.
Don't argue with others, don't get angry with others, don't be negative, don't be impetuous, learn to cherish those who are nice to you, don't worry about those who don't care about you!
learn to be calm, learn to live with what happens, learn to accept all rivers, learn to let go, the less angry you are, the more you have a big stage. Your mindset is good enough, and your life is smooth enough.
calm, not arrogant and impetuous
Wang Zengqi said: all things in the world have feelings, and it is rare to be calm.
people in this life, too much helplessness makes us physically and mentally exhausted, maybe it is really difficult for people to remain calm and calm.
but when you go through the world and see through the warmth of human feelings, disappointment and chill, you will be relieved and live calmly.
live calmly, no matter who you get along with, those who are sincere, treat them attentively, those who are hypocritical, stay away from them, and don't be disturbed by them.
Honor or disgrace in life, look down on it. Everything in the world is a floating cloud, and it will come to nothing eventually. Why cling to everything too deeply?
sometimes, to learn to see through and let go is not only to be tolerant to others, but also to be responsible for yourself.
in the long years, keep your inner calm, live calmly, do not care about the gains and losses of a city and a pool, do not fear the storm, do not be arrogant and impetuous, follow the fate, live calmly.
perseverance can accomplish the mission
as the saying goes: nothing in the world is difficult for those who set their minds to it.
if you hold back before victory, you will often miss success, and if you persevere in difficult times, you will often achieve new success.
everything is inseparable from persistence, and only by perseverance can we accomplish our mission.
walking on the road of life, we will inevitably encounter thorns and ups and downs, but as long as we persevere and persevere, there will be a beautiful rainbow after the wind and rain.
there is no such thing as a free lunch, no fruits in life, noNo matter what you do, if you don't see the dawn for a while, don't be impetuous, be patient, and persevere, you may only be one step away from success.
when people live, there are always adversity. Life will always go forward. May you not succumb to the arrangement of fate, keep going, be strong forever, and harvest a colorful life.
insist on being yourself, keep your mind at ease, stick to the right thing, go with your heart, no matter what blow you encounter, no matter how much you experience, you should be open-minded and optimistic, not impetuous, calm and calm, and live with your original ideals and aspirations. You will be magnanimous and at ease for the rest of your life.